The Dating Mindset and 3 Laws NOT to Break by Kieran Davey

Dating is and always will be a fun experience, no matter what your age. There is that magnificent feeling of excitement and sheer joy when you meet a person you share a bond and have similar interests with. A feeling that ‘money’ will never buy.

First things first. Forget the ‘3 laws’ or any other ‘laws’ you may have in your head right now. Let’s start with you. Clear your mind. This is exactly what you must have and need when you approach Dating from the start. This being - ‘The Power of the Open Mind.’

Finding your life partner is almost impossible without this mindset. Give yourself the best possible chance from the start. A negative mindset from the start will only hinder you. This might seem like advice at it’s most ‘basic.’ It is not. You’d be surprised how many people ruin their chances by having a ‘closed mind’ before the date has even begun.

Better still, dating is great for you as a person with this mindset. You are put into another zone. Whether it be in or out of your ‘comfort zone.’ This can often help you unravel more of your true self. The side of yourself that you are less familiar with.

OK then. So we have you in the right mindset. Good. Let’s now move on – to these 3 laws.

So you are out on a date. However, what must you do in order to make the date something special? Something to get you excited? Well, that all starts with you and your ‘open mind.’ No one else can help you with that. It’s down to you. However, you can get off to a flying start by following these 3 laws, at the very least! As basic as they seem, you’d be surprised. Time and time again they are forgotten. So, here we go.

Be on Time like a Dime!

Sounds basic doesn’t it? However you’d be surprised how many people take this for granted. You might think that 5-10 minutes is fine with a good excuse. However, what will your Date think? Yes, they might be fine with it. Why take the chance though?

Time matters in any place, meeting or activity. The same goes for a date. Even more, if it is the first date, second or even fifth date. That’s right, not just the first date. It doesn’t matter. Don’t let you guard down, even if it’s not the ‘first date.’

Cliché as it may sound but first impressions count and last. So there you go. You’ve mad a fantastic first impression. Off to a great start, before even parting words. You have controlled their first impressions with minimal effort. Just by being on time. You didn’t even have to dig into your old book of ‘late excuses.’ Yes, the ones you so often relied on before.

Can you make it last though? You have controlled their first impressions but now you need to move forward. Not too fast though.

Try to be excited and not nervous!

Even more so, if it is a first date. Having your heart pump away is only going to distract you from ‘being you.’ That is all that matters, as well. Be yourself and give yourself the best possible chance. It is completely normal to feel somewhat nervous but do not allow it to swallow you up. Otherwise, it will stop you from enjoying yourself and the whole ‘dating experience.’ Isn’t that what counts after all? You must have been somewhat excited when you asked your date out? Think about that.

If you cannot stand the feeling, just stop for a moment. Take a deep breath if you want to. Now try and turn your emotion to something that is more positive. It could be absolutely anything. OK, now instead of feeling nervous, try and remind yourself, that you are excited. That’s right, excited. Maybe it’s even an excited ‘nervousness.’ This is fine and is to be expected. Maybe your date feels the same way but is not showing it? However, try not to be just plain nervous. Being nervous does not help you or your date out. So your mindset is so important here.

Honesty will always be the best policy

Impressing your date with tall tales might work very well in the beginning. You might even smirk to yourself about some of these tales. However, what about down the track? Yes, that’s right. Two, three, four or even 10 dates later. Maybe they will finally probe more and finally ask you to pull one of those rabbits out of your so called hat!

Honesty is and will always win out in the end. Don’t kid yourself from the start by kidding them in the beginning. You are deceiving both yourself and them. It will only come back to hurt you in the long run. Kid them now and close the door on any chance of future dates and a relationship in the long run. Be honest with your own self first and then your date second. They will love you for it.

So there you have it. The Dating Mindset you must from the start and 3 Laws you must NOT break. You may even laugh to yourself now. Stop. Yes, of course, these are not the only laws. In fact, there are no hard and fast ‘laws’ relating to dating. It’s a very ‘personal’ thing. You may break these laws once or even twice and all may be fine. However, it will catch up with you in the end, don’t you worry about that.

With all this being said, go in with the wrong mindset and you will no doubt fail. The power of the ‘open mind’ will always win. That is little doubt. Your own assumptions are one thing but the way you are perceived is another.

Good luck to you all.

Kieran Davey offers Dating & Relationship advice in the unique and Fun Dating Community Velvet Lounge Dating. He does not confess to be an ‘expert’ and strongly disagrees with people using this ‘title tag.’ Dating and Relationships are very personal. In fact, it doesn’t get any more personal. Velvet Lounge Dating is a Fresh, Fun and Exciting Community like no other. We think you might like us.:-)

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Dating Rules Explained: How to Turn Your Date Into a Relationship by RoseMary Alberts

How adults behave on a date depends more on their intentions towards the other person than it does on other factors. For instance, a man who really likes a woman is going to behave differently towards her than he would a woman he is only casually interested in. Sometimes, it is hard to know the difference.

If you really like a guy, you may not be paying attention to his body language, the inflection of his voice as he speaks, or the tone of voice in which he is speaking, and so might miss some of the non verbal cues that would otherwise clue you in to what he is thinking, and how he views you. Does he view you as a potential partner, or a potential bed partner?

We all know the dating rules, or at least enough of them to know what to do and what not to do on a date. However, if you are dating for real, some of those rules don’t apply. The rules for dating were largely established a few decades ago to make it easier for people to date, and figure out how to behave towards each other when they had no idea how dating between a man and a woman is supposed to work.

When you date for real, as in you are looking for a lasting connection with a man, rather than a fleeting infatuation, you are more likely to put yourself out there, be more honest and more direct than you would be normally. The interesting side effect of such blatant courage is that the man you are showing your real self to is blown away by your honesty and will probably respond in kind. A real relationship is not based on mind games or attempts at power plays or control.

If you begin your association with communication, honesty, and forthrightness, the chances are good that that will be the basis for the dynamic of your relationship. If you or he goes the other way, and depends upon a list of antiquated guidelines to look to for correct behavior, the relationship will never really get off the ground because neither of you will ever really get to know the other person.

It’s not about being polite, its about being you, the real you.

What happens a lot of times is that a woman will meet a man that she likes or who fits all of her idealistic relationship criteria: he is successful, he is good looking, intelligent, has a nice body, etc…..then she will try to figure out what he wants in a woman, and she will mold her personality to fit into what she THINKS he wants. Then what happens?

He is still not having a relationship with her. He is having a relationship with the woman he thinks she is. But she will soon grow tired of this game, and he will eventually notice that she is unhappy but will be unable to figure out why.

Dating for real is scary because it means that you have to let the other person in. You have to let them see who you really are in order to start something. Just as you need to see who he really is. You need to fight through the nice clothes, and the fancy car, and the sexy voice, down to who he is on the inside.

It’s a long, arduous frustrating journey, but at the end of all that, guess what you will have? You will have a bond with a man who knows you don’t look like Tyra Banks in the morning when you wake up, but loves you anyway.

So many men are looking for good women, and so many women are looking for good men, and they are all around us all the time. They are lonely and conused and have a few dings and scratches, or even a humdinger of a dent, but with a little care and patience, and honesty, they could be good for us.

What we put into a relationship is what we get out of a relationship. If you’re dating for real, be yourself. If he takes off, he is not the one for you. That’s all it is.

This is life. We are going to be rejected. It happens. But don’t shy away from being yourself for fear of rejection.

The hypothetical man in the above story just wanted a woman to be with who he could share his time and his life with. If she had been authentic with him from the beginning, things would have been different.

Be Real. That is the only dating rule you really need to follow.

RoseMary Alberts lives in Florida and has a lifetime of dating experiences in her rear view mirror. As a attractive and young 50-year-old, she enjoyed the single life through most of her twenties and for the last ten years, since the death of her late husband. For online dating, visit: http://www.nsadatingsite.com/

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10 Tips for Self Care During Divorce by administrator

by Sharron Phillips

Copyright 2006 Sharron Phillips

What a gift you will give yourself and everyone around you if you are committed and willing to take extreme measures for self care during a divorce. A divorce is a separation from a union and even the most straightforward, uncomplicated circumstances include unforeseen hiccups.

There are plenty of chances to observe who you are in this stressful situation. Healing comes to those who rather than blame life’s experiences, give thanks for the growth potential being offered. I know this is a stretch to accept when you are in the midst of divorce, and I’d like you to trust that it is likely to be true for you.

I made full use of the time during my second divorce to really pay attention to how I was feeling. Even in my misery I looked for glimpses of clarity, wisdom, and understanding about what part I had played in the story. It takes two to tango, so you will only benefit from learning more about yourself, seeing where you need to shore up your foundation, and taking action so that a next relationship will be fulfilling in ways that you want. In order to face who you are, to get perspective, it is important to take very good care of yourself, especially during the divorce process.

1. Set up your own space. If you can afford to have a separate living arrangement during your divorce proceedings and it does not interfere with legal requirements for the outcome you are hoping for, find a separate space. If you are financially strapped, create a separate space in the dwelling you share and make it appealing. Buy yourself flowers for the room, get new artwork for the wall, colorful throw cushions, new sheets and towels.

2. Eat healthy foods. Divorce is a stress marathon - use extreme measures in your exercise and nutrition plans to remain healthy, or become healthy.

3. Get outside, walk, walk, walk or run or mosey or amble. This will go a long way to soothing the jangled nerves you are likely to experience.

4. Bitch, moan, tear out your hair, cry, wail, take a breath and then repeat as often as necessary until you get tired of hearing yourself repeat the saga of your breakup and why you are right and your soon to be ex is all wrong.

5. Start a new career or hobby. You will meet new people, engage your creativity and have a new outlet.

6. Understand that this experience will have an end and a new beginning. Prepare to forgive yourself and your new ex and be willing to move on.

7. Evaluate your friendships and make whatever adjustments you feel are necessary. Sometimes there is a need to make new friends and say goodbye to relationships that are fraught with unrepairable history.

8. Daydream about your next partner and relationship. In order to be ready for a new and improved relationship, you need to know what you want and also need to see what parts of you need healing and nurturing.

9. Get reliable, recommended legal counsel. Be prepared for the process to take longer than you thought. Save your energy. You are not likely to speed up the process.

10. Understand that this experience may be an opportunity for growth and insight. Be gentle with yourself, be prepared to make changes in your life and outlook. Get ready for the adventure of discovering yourself.

Sharron Phillips is a life coach, massage therapist, facilitator and speaker. Her specialities are relationships, wellness and spirituality. She is currently writing a book on self care for women.
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Divorce: Tips to Get Through and Beat the Stress by administrator

by Silvester Thompson

Going through a divorce can leave you angry, in grief and filled with mixed emotions. In other words, it can be a time of intense stress.

During this period you may feel like your life is falling apart. However, the end of marriage can be the beginning of personal growth - after you get your stress under control.

To help you get your life back on track, experts recommend working on yourself from the inside out.

For example, studies show that taking an all-natural supplement, like Vital StressX can help the body’s natural defenses fight against the emotional wear and tear of a divorce, such as lack of sleep. Made by CyberWize.com, Vital StressX contains a unique combination of seven herbs, called “adaptogens,” that help your body regulate cortisol, the “stress hormone.”

“By taking Vital StressX each day, you’ll increase your body’s tolerance to stressful conditions, helping you become balanced and active once more,” said Dr. Robert D’Amico, an osteopathic specialist in Tarpon Springs, Fla.

In addition, CyberWize.com offers the following stress-relieving tips to help you get through your divorce.

* Write a letter to your ex-spouse. Getting your feelings out of your system is a healthy way to start recovering from anger, resentment and other emotions. But after you’re finished writing the letter, don’t send it. Rip up the note and throw it away along with your sorrows.

* Seek counseling. Discussing the failed relationship with a professional can help you identify what went wrong and figure out what you need to do to recover and learn from the experience. Also, it can help you share your deepest feelings in a safe, secure environment where you won’t be judged.

* Sweat it out. Exercising regularly does more than keep you fit. It also releases endorphins and is a great outlet for anger.

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How To Decide If You Are In A Useless Relationship by Tony Edwards

How can you tell if your relationship is useless and doomed to end? Here are a few clues to help you decide.

- Your partner verbally abuses you.
- Your partner tells you he/she loves you, but fails to show you.
- Your partner consistently checks up on you and does not trust you. He/she reads your mail or email and shows up when not expected.
- You are not allowed to have any independence.
- You try to be what your partner wants you to be and not yourself.

If you answered “yes” to any of these clues, then you may be wasting your time in the relationship unless changes can be made to save the relationship. You may even ask yourself “how did I end up here?”

Why do people end up in useless or dead end relationships? Why do they like to be with someone that belittles and can emotionally or physically harm them?

These types of relationships usually run a course. It starts off in the blissful stage, followed by a big blow up, then an “I am sorry, let’s get back together” phase - then it all starts over again. You get locked into this never-ending cycle.

When you first meet, you are blinded by love and bliss. Your new partner can do no wrong and the “wool” is putted over your eyes. It is hard to realize or admit that the relationship could have problems and might not be right for you. It is even harder to see or want to get out of the relationship at this point.

If someone’s home life was involved in this type of relationship growing up, then they are more likely to drawn to the same kind of relationship. It is the cycle of life and duplication. People have a tendency to duplicate what they know even if they know better.

Anyone involved in a useless relationship has a tendency to have low esteem from the constant belittling or brow beating. Because of this, they tend to stay in the relationship thinking that no one else would have them. This is the type of mind control that takes place and keeps someone in this type of relationship.

Once you realize what is going on and that you have choices, then you can stand up for yourself. You suddenly realize that it is not all your fault as you have been told. With this knowledge, you can have a better chance of getting out of the relationship or getting things changed.

For some people, it takes counseling or therapy to be able to redefine their lives. The good news is that some couples can break out of the cycle and get their relationship back on track for happiness. Yet, for others, the only solution is to “get out” of the relationship.

Thankfully, most relationships can be healed and gotten back on track. Whether it takes counseling, time or more space, if both partners are willing to work together, they can create a healthy bond.

First, you must come to the conclusion that the relationship must change or you will be prepared to walk away from it. As long as you are willing to stay in the relationship and do nothing, then the madness will continue.

Once you decide to be independent, instead of totally dependent, you can start the process of salvaging or ending the relationship. Nagging, pleading or begging will not work, be strong and tell your partner exactly the way you feel and what you truly need.

If your partner is not willing to provide you with what you need out of the relationship, then they must know that you are willing to walk away.

Healthy relationships consist of a sense of give and take from both parties. If this is not what your relationship is founded on, then it is time you make a change. You have the power of happiness in your hands, so take action.

These are just a few steps to help you inspect your relationship, and there are more you can learn.

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Yes! You Can Understand The Roller-Coaster-Ride Of Relationships! Take Back Control Of Your Life! by Loy Combs

Providence often seems inscrutable and willful. Relationship disasters strike; and leave us feeling crushed and helpless; and we wonder why these things are happening to us. Take heart! You do not have to suffer the whims of fortune blindly. Life is not the random chaos that we take for granted. It is a relationship game to help us develop our full potential.

Trust me, just like you, I have had my fair share of relationship challenges in life. I cannot tell you how much heartache I went through until I discovered the hidden secrets of life. Let me reveal these to you now.

* Life is a game with a firm set of rules.

To make sense of the many repetitive crises and so-called coincidences in life, somebody should have handed us a set of rules at birth. As it is, we must discover the method to the madness around us as we go along, and many give up trying.

Through many heart-wrenching dramas, I learned that life is a competitive relationship game. To graduate from one level to the next, we must navigate past many traps and red herrings.

* The name of the game is conflict.

Life is a relationship game of me versus you. Most human interactions, no matter how they begin, escalate until one wins, and one loses. There is no denying or escaping it. If we avoid clashes with others, we still must struggle against the voice inside of us to reach our goals from losing weight to becoming a champion marathon runner to finding happiness.

* There are three players in the game.

Any relationship conflict requires a minimum of two players, an aggressor (villain) and a victim. Ideally, a hero then rushes in to rescue the victim and restrain the villain. Of course, we all like to think of ourselves as good people. However, each of us plays all three roles at sometime in our life.

* Life appears unfair.

Unfortunately, there are far more beginning players, the victims and villains, than more advanced heroes in the world. When no savior appears to rescue the victim and restrain the villain, life appears unfair. Yet, this conclusion is only a trap in the game that keeps you embroiled in conflict.

* You repeat the same unresolved relationship conflicts until you graduate to the next level of the game.

Any victim scenario will keep haunting you by drawing similar people and situations into your life until you become a winner. If a series of sweethearts has abandoned you, or you have lost several jobs, or suffered various accidents, then you have experienced the game at work. Incidentally, the same mechanism applies to the villain and the hero.

* There are 36 variations of relationship conflict.

That would be too easy. The game throws 36 different relationship conflict scenarios at you, some simultaneously, to keep you entertained and confused. Each playing partner that appears in your life is struggling much like you to get through those clashes alive and unscathed and preferably, a winner.

* What is in it for you?

All relationship conflicts must ultimately end in the triumph of the hero who then sets out to live happily ever after, or so the game would have us believe. Again, this is just fool’s gold. The prize of the game lies truly in the soul qualities you develop each time you become a winner, the first and foremost of which is courage.

Life can be a fun-filled adventure once you recognize the relationship rules of the game at work in your life and look out for its pitfalls. You need to balance strength and love to win the game. Too much strength turns you into a villain, too much love into a victim. The winning role is a hero with enough power and heart to help other players become a winner also.

Loy Combs, a relationship researcher and consultant for over forty years, teaches you the secret rules of the relationship game. Extract yourself from dramas and begin anew. Get your free relationship test to determine your position on this chessboard called life at http://www.loycombs.com

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I Want My Girlfriend Back - She Loves Me She Loves Me Not by Jason Bo Han

Separating with your ex can be an extremely heart wrenching experience. Like most people who have just been through a break up, you are probably at a total loss of what to do next.

Well, this is very understandable. Ultimately, a break up can be a huge blow to many people. One day, you can be happily chatting to your lover. The next day, the love of your life decided to bid you farewell.

Anyone who has ever been through a break up will definitely understand this experience. In the article that follows, you will learn a few tips that will hopefully help you in saving your relationship. Read on to find out more!

I want my girlfriend back but I do not know what to do. So, what can I really do to win my girlfriend back to my side? Are they any shortcut method?

Well, winning a girlfriend back can be a very uphill task especially if you do not know what you are doing. One of the biggest problems is probably about whether your girlfriend is still interested in getting back together with you in the first place.

Does she still love you? Or does she not? There is really no easy way to find out. Therefore, it is always a good idea to be more observant and look for signals, if there are any.

If you have already broken up with her for more than a month, has she ever called you during this period? If the answer is yes, it is probably a good sign, depending on the conversation.

And is she flirting with you in any way? If the answer is yes, it is probably another positive sign. Of course, you will have to take into account her personality.

But of course, here is one warning. Just because your girlfriend seems interested to get back together with you does not mean you should immediately jump right back into the relationship.

This is because you should really take a bit of time to observe her. You want to know that she is really serious about getting back together with you. This is because there is always this small possibility that she is just trying to get back at you.

Of course, this is quite unlikely to happen. Maybe you know your girlfriend is not that kind of person. But still, you want to be careful about it and know how to protect yourself from being hurt.

Saving a relationship is definitely not an easy task. And when you are feeling emotionally drained, it can be very easy for you to make mistakes that will push your ex further away.

However, if you believe that this relationship is worth saving, then don’t give up so easily. Although saving a relationship is not easy, it is not impossible either.

You might be worried about making mistakes. Well, some common mistakes can be easily avoided once you are aware of them. Anyway, hopefully, you have learned something useful in this article that will help you in winning your ex back.

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Fostering a Good Relationship with Love Quotes by

Love is a wonderful feeling which all mankind experiences. Love is a strong and deep emotion for someone we like. Using famous love quotes have been a popular way of expressing our emotion to someone dear to us. It has been used in love letters, radio greetings and even text messages.

Love quotes can also be an added spice in any romantic relationship. Even the toughest heart will melt with the poetic words of a love quote. Sometimes love will make a person a poet. If you want to write some love quotes for your loved one, you can get some ideas from a lot of famous love quotes. You can surely find a good inspiration for your writing.

Many of the love quotes have been famous because they were able to inspire the emotion of love to a lot of people in the whole world. These famous love quotes can help rekindle or strengthen the feelings. It has inspired people to be a better person, to love fully without conditions.

Famous love quotes mostly consist of words of wisdoms which can serve as a lesson to live on and apply in our real life with our relationship. As we continue to love and learn from these words of wisdom, we then learn to share this to people we love so they can also learn from these love quotes.

There are times that we would like to express our love for someone but find it very difficult to express it in our own words. This is sometimes a challenge we face and we turn to formula sayings to help us in telling our deepest emotions. You can probably create a good love letter with the thoughts from these love quotes.

Love quotes are cradles to a couple who live miles away from each other. It gives them hope and promise of staying true to each other. It helps them get through the day, with the thought that they would one day be together again. It inspires them to fight and make the long distance relationship work.

Love quotes are known to bring that smile to a loved one. With the sweet and romantic thoughts of famous love quotes, our dear ones will surely show a smile on their face upon reading these quotes.

Love quotes can also be a strong bond in marriage. The couple can always learn a thing or two from these words of wisdom, helping them adjust, to give and take, for the relationship to grow and prosper.

For broken hearted people, there are love quotes which help to ease the pain. It also helps them think more positive and inspire them to move on with life and assure that they will find someone deserving to be loved.

Love quotes are not only for romance but are also good inspiration. Some of the famous love quotes encourage us to move forward with our lives especially during the times that we are down. They are purposely written to provide positive thoughts and shows that it is not the end of the road when we experience difficult times.
These are commonly called inspirational love quotes and are good guide to learn how to cope up with the most difficult moment of our lives.

Love quotes are not only for lovers, they are definitely for everyone. Through love quotes, we can learn a lot of things which we can use to maintain our good relationship with our loved ones as well as to have a good inspiration for challenges we may face in our lives.

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Should You Date Someone That Already Has Kids by Aydan Corkern

So, a while back you might have started dating someone you really liked and knew right from the beginning that they already had a child or maybe two. Then you wake up a few weeks later and wonder what you have gotten yourself into? Sometimes finding out that you have put yourself into a situation that you might not have been ready for is quite common in the dating world. Suddenly a few dates turned into a commitment somewhere along the line and you are not quite sure how you got there. You have discovered that this other person had a whole different side to their life that included raising a child or children and somehow you have landed yourself right in the middle of it.

This happens to people because they do not always consider the ramifications of dating someone that already has children when they do not. You might not have had any intentions of having children in your life for a long time, if ever, and finding yourself having to deal with issues surrounding a child especially when it is does not belong to you, can be overwhelming. You might have thought, so, they have a kid, that is no big deal. If you develop feelings for this person with the child or children, they are likely to affect your life in some ways just like they do the parents.

If the baby is sick, you can not go out. If you can not get a sitter, you can not go out. If you want to be intimate and the child is in the room with you, you can not. If you want to cuddle in front of the television and the child wants to play with their mommy or daddy, you can be put on the back burner. Now, it might never have been your intention to be annoyed by a child or even jealous of one, but this can happen with dating couples when children are involved.

It is so important that before you become deeply involved in a relationship with someone that has children already, make sure that you can handle it as well as they do. Most parents are going to put their kids first and you have to be prepared for the fact that you will not always be getting your way when it interferes with what is best for their child. It is usually not intentional on their part, it is just that being a good parent requires a lot of time and attention and if you are not ready to share in this, it might be best if you do not date anyone who already has kids.

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Date Multiple Women: 5 Rules for Dating Different Girls by

What guy wouldn’t want to date multiple women? Why stick to one when there’s such a variety out there? Being with a new woman each night is guaranteed to never get old, right?

Well, you’re half right.

Anyone who’s seen John Tucker Must Die knows the downfall of having different partners. If you haven’t seen the movie, suffice it to say that John is a player, and when his women find out they’ve been played, he pays the price. Unfortunately, this storyline is more than just fiction.

By following the advice in this article, you can date many women without the headache.

#1- Don’t lie.

Here’s where most guys go wrong. They want to see many women, and neglect to tell their partners this for fear they’ll leave them. In truth, they might, but it’s always best to be honest.

By avoiding the truth, a woman will think you’re cheating on her, and the punishment will be severe. If you don’t believe me, just wait until a woman you’re dating discovers the other females in your life. When she does, send me an email telling me all about it. I’ll reply promptly with an “I told you so.”

#2- Get it together.

It’s easy to get mixed up when you’re dating multiple women. The names and dates get mangled together, and it’s hard to keep up. The last thing you need is to schedule a dinner on the same night for two girls. You’ll have a huge mess on your hands if they run into each other.

It’s essential that you get it together. It’s not a bad idea to buy a calendar, and mark each date with the girl’s name clearly. In addition, you must maintain control over when and where you see these girls. Don’t allow one to dictate when you’ll see her, otherwise you could mess up.

#3- Make her work for it.

Something about a man who’s desirable to many women is irresistible. With that being said, try showing that you’re the one whose affections need to be won, not the other way around. The women in your life will work hard for your approval.

The key to doing this is to set rules for being with you, and make sure the women you’re dating abide by them. For instance, if you don’t like clingy women, tell them. If a girl you’re dating starts demanding to know where you are, get rid of her. It’s hard enough juggling dating partners, so why waste your time with someone who isn’t worth it?

#4- Be respectful.

Just because you’ve got the luxury of being with many girls does not mean you have to be a jerk. A lot of guys who juggle women make the mistake of getting cocky about it, only to pay the price in the end. In fact, if your attitude goes south, I wouldn’t be surprised if you were left alone.

If she calls, return her message. Hold doors open for your dates, and never talk down your nose to them. Even if a woman is open to you seeing other people, that doesn’t mean she wants to be treated poorly. Never forget that she can date other guys if she wants to, and she can ditch you just as easily as you can ditch her.

#5-Branch out.

Don’t expect the women in your life to hang around forever, because they won’t. At some point, they’re going to want a commitment, and if you won’t give it to them, they’ll find someone who will. Expect it, and deal with it.

When this happens, don’t be mad. Instead, remain cordial with her. She might surprise you and come running back for more. There’s just no telling. Regardless of what happens with her, always be on the look out for new women. It never hurts to keep a fresh supply of females on hand for any occasion.

Conclusion

If you want to date many women, you’ve got to have your act together. Be upfront and honest from the start, thereby preventing any backlash. From that point, make sure you’ve got your schedule together, and devote enough to time to each and every one of them. If you follow the advice in this article, you’ll have the sex life you’ve always dreamed of!

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